i am just getting stressed and need to vent and everything else. If this tells you how my summer has been going.
okay my brother has a 7 month old son, who he loves to death. well his ex (baby momma) decided she was going to leave him and move in with another guy. now she is denying him his son. however he gets him maybe once a week. and since kansas is a woman's state, if he goes to court he will get screwed. this guy and his parents that she is living with wont let anyone in our family see him unless we get there permission. if this tells you what kind of girl she is, she is 23 or turning it, 2 sons by two different fathers, and the guys she is living with now isn't the other son's father. she wont get a job. and she has been talking a bunch of trash on everyone in my family. my brother got a house, and i moved in with him to help him out with bills ect.. and since he has been so down i went out and bought him a quad that he has been wanting. he also races, so he will be in Emporia next friday the 28th.
he has talked to a lawyer and she told him that he is pretty much going to looking at 500 a month child support, maybe a day or two more with his son. and that is it. and she wants 4 grand for his case. he has no idea what to do.
then the past few days she has been calling my brother and telling him all the drama that she is going threw. and my brother feels bad for and everything. so we sat down and talked, come to find out he is thinking about letting her and the boys move in. which i am against. he told me he was only doing it so he knows his son is safe.
so i guess my question is do i stay or do i leave? he needs the help with bills. and if i do go i will take his quad with me.
then to add to all that i found out yesterday that i will be in a cast for 4-6 months. i broke my wrist last summer and it healed wrong. can anything else really go wrong?

thank you for letting me get this out of my head. i feel better now

 

I'd take her to court and get joint custody. Sounds like she's going to jump the fence everytime she sees something greener. But he probably should have taken that into consideration before knocking her up.

And you should probably butt out and support your bro's decision because you won't win either way. You're a good looking girl, go find your own BF to torture. lol! [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img]

 

i have tried to butt out, but my brother wont let me. he needs someone to vent to. and i am the only one he really has right now. i have always looked up to my brother as my father figure. (long story). so it is hard to just get up and walk away from him.

i don't torture anyone, plus i am single another long story. but i am loving every bit of it right now.
and i will always support my brother's decision.

 

I wouldn't say that too loud on these sites. The freaks come out from every nook and cranny.

I couldn't live with my bro much less his family. I can't even imagine. Gives me the ******* just thinking about it. I'm sure whatever you decide will be the right decision.

 

i doubt anyone can find me.

i don't mind living with my brother, now my sister is a whole different story. i would probably hurt her and she is my twin.
growing up my brother has been a big part of my life, so now in return i help him. so this is hard for me to see him go threw this crap.
did i say i was single... missed the word not, sorry i have a cast on and it is getting hard to type.

pm me sometime. and thank you for the advice

 

Raptorchic22, sorry to hear about your bro and I don't have any advise to offer, just sympathy.

Did they have to re-break your wrist to set it right? I had that done to a broken finger once after about 6-weeks of bad healing. The doc gave me a couple of local shots but it didn't numb it much. Then he said, "well should we just get this done?" I said, "umm, I guess." So he grabs the thing and snaps it.[img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif[/img]

If I wasn't so busy doubling over in pain I'm sure I would have decked the guy.[img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-frown.gif[/img]

 

Don't trust anybody. As a father myself, please play it safe. OK, I'm through preaching. lol!

With that said, I'd admire you watching out for family. More of us should be that way. Good luck!

 

Joint custody is a pain.. My buddy.. is a great dad.. yet divorced and the mom tortures him with the kid [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif[/img] Nothin he can do. and she gets 1 grand out his pocket for the 1 kid and he gets her like 1 week night 1 week and the weekend on the next week. Not a whole lot of time.. But the time he gets he makes quality time.. She is 4 now.. So she is gonna start wakeboarding [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif[/img]

 

So is being married. [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]

 

Raptorchic22 learn from this.. [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img] No Kids No Husbands [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img]