None taken.... I too would want to work and do want to! But the wife has the degree and I'm
a or was a blue colar worker {hard workin I will add}til I had the awakening of a life time
when a car came at me head on and things aint been the same since {that was in 99}.
I'm okay now but , I still want to work and work to make me a "complete man", but now I'm so used to being with my girls that when I go to get groceries {in her car} I feel so bad and so guilty
about leavin my girls behind just for that 20min of not knowing whats going on with them
and my wife in her care that I almost get sick!!! I'd take them with me but I need a brief time out.
Dam.. I'm startin to sound like a women!!! She's just not a good "mom" in my eyes her family
chooses to look the other way but she even admits it.She'll come home from work and slam 2 glasses of wine and then take off with her other two boys to ball games and she doesn't even
spend time with the girls...it's sad! She sees them for a total of maybe 2 glasses of wine and tells them to get out of the room so she can talk on the phone or watch tv.I'm deserving of a quality time hobby such as quads even though it would make me feel guilty of leaving my girls with her for maybe 2 hrs a week.Boy I bet alot of these people reading this topic are getting more then they
thought they would but this is what married life can turn out to be if your single don't get caught
like I feel I did .... now I'm stuck!!

 

what part of the US do you live in?, we need to get together for a weekend. I have 2 girls and a wife that love to ride, we will take you and your 2 daughters for a ride!

 

It's called tolerence, she can drink with the best of them!!!! She's put most men in a coma before she stops, and she gets up like clock work!!!! It all I guess started for her when she lost her baby
girl to "SIDS" about 13yrs ago and she ain't stopped yet.I feel for her but there just aint no talkin her away from the bottle,I tried , I've even threatened to leave her but I only can be full of crap
for so long especially when it comes to my kids!! Can't do it to them!!!

 

Thanks for the offer I live near Albany NY. besides my girls are 3 & 4. The reason I refuse to get
a babysitter is I'm terrified of the what if's{pedifiles}, and then I'd have no one to blame but myself.Theres just too many wacky people out there that don't have a conscience and take little
beauties of life {boys too} and do horrible things to them, and thats even proven in the catholic
churches.They seem to slip by the screenings.I just can't take that chance.My heart would explode!

 

HAaa,haaa,biggone your a wussy, grow up and be a man. you let these things go on because you want to. Wife won`t let me work[img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-sad.gif[/img] geez. Dude come on, tell your wife shes got a driniking problem stop her now before its to late. I don`t blame no one but you. Get her straight, then you get a job and join the rest of us.

ps. for your information yes i do have a family, a wife and three girls, I work a full time job and a part time job and no my wife dosen`t work she`s back in school. My full time job pays the bills my part time job pays for my hobby ( 4wheelers and the joy that go`s with them).

 

Your intitled to your opinion. If thats how you see it. Let me ask you this....{if your wife was a
hardcore drinker}and you had {so you thought} no other choice but to leave them behind with her and go to work would that make you a "RESPONSIBLE DAD"??? Wussy.....I think NOT!!
I think a wussy would high tail it out of here and forget how the kids would be cared for!
Oh belive me I put it on the line but what she has is a sickness and for her it's untreatable.
Don't preach to me about bein a "DAD" I'm probably one of the "BEST" ones out there!You got 3
girls... I've got 5 kids I'm raisin pretty much on my own tryin to teach them that this sh*t isn't
a normal way of life,and to raise them the best way possible.So have yourself a real good laugh
cause apparently you'll never be there to see what you would do.

 

I found a local dealeship with a left over 04 LTZ400 for $4,795 does that sound like a good deal?
How were the 04's??MSRP was 5,689.

 

u could definately talk em down. in march i got mine brand new for 4999 +tax title and regristration which u have to get in ny if u buy new. it came to 5438.92 paid it all there and im only 15. sucks about ur condition but u need to have some fun. have ur oldest kid watch the others while u ride for a while

i would definately get rid of the truck and get a small car thats an older model. puts some money in ur pocket for u

 

howabout get a harley and a Z400.

 

LoL !!! Yeah.... I don't know about the Harley but I'll take the chick that rides on the back of one!!
Some of those chicks are worth more than the Harley in my books!!LOL!