i wouldnt go against her wishes but all land issues aside- i know he's your bud and all but there must be a reason why she doesnt want him on her property.

unfortunately, some people are thrown off by someone's outward appearance or some vague action that doesnt sit too well with them. could be something totally harmless however interpteted wrong...

Maybe this lady read your friend wrong about something in the past or heard a story or something.... bottomline is she dont like him and it might be a good idea to be diplomatic and find out why. have him go over and meet her too and reassure her that he means no harm.

but the choice is ultimately hers about her land, yours about your friend.

 

Just curious, how did things worked out?