well im glad yall know how i feel im usually like you hard hearted but i really thought this one was different but i guess not well thanks for everything guys

 

She chose this path, not you. And that's the best part about it, btw. If you're "friends" you have free reign! [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img]

Been my experience being nice does not help in the short run (they'll call you every name in the book!), but they don't hold a grudge witout ammunition. Don't stir the pot. Don't put up with it. Walk away. It'll pay off later. Trust me. Had to get a few chicks I really didn't care about to figure this out.

 

yes she did chose this path and she asked me can we still be friends and i said yes.. she knows not to cuse at me and she wont do it i did nothing to her its all her falt! we broke up well that i know of anyways!

 

Yeah! Wait until she sees you with someone else. lol!

Be first man! That's all I have to say.

 

be the first one to go out with someone else?? well i really want to fly solo for a while and so does she so i think im gonna do that im definatly gonna let her see me around some chicks and stuff like that flerting around alittle who knows

 

Oh geez! Have you heard a word I've said? Where's OFC?

 

ya i have heard everything u said im sorry if i seem kinda out of it! im definatly gonna flert around and everything! i wil think about a g/f i know this girl that wants me pretty bad she's ok looking.... i might just hook up with her for like a day or 2 then dump her.. well thats just about it right now if you reply back i will have more mabe? haha

 

1988fast250x,

We have all been in your shoes, and no matter your age, it still sux.


If you put this in perspective, she didn't want to keep going out with you, she apparently tried to put it in the nicest terms possible, and she even went out on a limb and made herself vulnerable by telling you she loves you and that she cried about the break up…

Sounds like she might have been really falling for you, and maybe she realized your futures would go in different directions and it would just be more painful to split later...

You are at a cross road and you need to decide if you want to find some other girl and flaunt her in front of the ex in a deliberate attempt to hurt her feelings more, or do you want to act like an adult and just move on?


P.S. As far as the "just friends" thing goes, been there, done that. It might work OK to chat once in a while, but I wouldn't recommend hanging out a lot. 2 reasons.

1- It could turn off other girls who might want to date you, who don't know where you and the ex really stand.

2- The bad feelings you have now will just repeat when one of you starts dating someone else.

 

OFC is right here. What kinda service can i offer?

 

Are we tryin to teach this boy how to have multiple girls on the stringer at one time and keep them from knowing about eachother?
I preffer having multiple girls on the string and having them all know about eachother. way less stressfull [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-smile.gif[/img]