I've done it both ways. Depends if they are the primary or alternates. Never cheated on a chick without the the #2 knowing about #1. Some get off on it. Number 3 didn't always know about #2 though. BUT NEVER go without a back-up plan. ALWAYS have alternate. [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img]

 

When I started dating my wife.... #'s 2, 3 and 4 knew and none ever said a word. Never had so much fun in my life.

 

Yes.. this is much like my father. I learned at a young age. except my dad was dumb enough to come clean at some point. Freakin preachers anyway. what kinda example is that [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-shocked.gif[/img]

 

No Way!!! Preacher? You're kidding? And I wasn't married yet for the record. I've never cheated since saying, "I do".

But I ain't telling her, just the same! [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-blush.gif[/img]

 

Pay attention. I've said it a million times im the wild son of the preacher man [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img] Even men of the cloth aint perfect. I guess god told him he was being a dumbass or sompin. I dont care to know the whole story cuz he hit his midlife crisis later in life and started goin outside his marriage and yeah. mom kicked his *** to the curb and he had to pay a significant quantity in child support and alimony. Aint many people who pay what he did. buddies of mine bitch about a few hundered a month or whatever. his was a few thousand a month just for me.

 

WOW OFC!! Ive never heard any of that before. Fascinating. Do you still see him today?

 

OK. I'm starting to understand you a little better.

 

Me too. Had you ever heard that before RL?

 

If I did, I thought he was kidding. Must be one of them new waive denominations. [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img]

 

pretty much everyday... Teaches me you reep what you sow. His new wife is an off the wall Psycho Bitch.