Tried that route, She has a real bad habit of answering any question with a question. Extremely hard headed. The two absolutley hate eachother which doesnt make it any easier. I just had to put an end to it.

 

I dont know you but read the thread . You seem to be a very good man for doing what you are doing and make no mistake or second guess that what you are doing is RIGHT. Someone in the situation youre ex is in needs help without discrimination from others. You are strong and have been standing up for youre son and helping his mother which helps him. Gilfreinds come and go but a true freind is there forever. like you said if youre back was broke who would be there for you? We can only give advise but I think you know whats right and will keep doing whats right.But in the worst case helping someone in need is never wrong differences can be put aside for reasons like this.

 

well Scatter I've been in a simalar situation , my EX had been physicaly hurt by her current boy friend ,now gone , but I was there in the hospital to help her ,the bottom line for me was my kids ,but also to help some body who was my best friend for over 15 years ,can't turn your back on that .
Hope the best for you and your son .

 

I have to agree its the right thing to do. your helping out your son by helping with your ex. the gf needs to grow up and get over it. thats a sign that she is jealous and if thats the case then the relationship between u guys won't last long


hope your ex gets better good luck

 

You know Ive been sittin here havin a drink and tryin to shake off a really sh!tty day. It really sucks theres no one to talk to. Ive takin on such a huge load. Im tryin to get business up and runnin again, this winter has been real B!tch It started in Nov and its still snowin. I litterally have about 100k of work sittin there and cant do a thing about it. Some of my crew are getting ready to jump ship. Im talkin about guys that have been with me for years. Im dealin with the ex, sent the GF packin, Im trying to take care of my Grandma (who raised basically raised me and has no-one else to do it) Tryin to keep the boy from drivin mom crazy. Money is real tight, due to payin the ex's necessities. And my bike is torn apart and I cant get the parts to get it done. Ive never been so tired in my life. I know Im doin the right thing but man is it hard to keep it up. Man I would kill for 10min of sunshine and a race hill. Im sorry guys I dont want to sound like Im whineing, Im just blowin off some steam, just frustrated. Maybe tomorrow will be better who knows?

 

Why dont you call the ex girlfriend and call her over so you can take a load off!!LMAO!!

 

ROFLMFAO. Thanks Mario, I needed a good laugh![img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]

 

LMAO you a crazy SOB Mario!!! Guess thats y I like ya LOL

 

I dont have the problem you have to scale. However I know how tough it is juggle both ends. My ex wife needs my help with the kids because of her job. However I look at it helping th kids. SO thats how you gotta put it into perspective. Like others have said, your GF seems kinda immature. She needs to be in her shoes. On the other hand your Ex-wife needs to see what kind of man you are and not give you crap about things such as child custody matters

 

Keith let me know if I can help!! I will send ya a bottle of crown cuz it works for me LOL