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09-21-2005, 04:34 PM
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GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: Raptorlegs
How about a committment to your spouse, your children and your God? Reason enough to work things out? Single people should think REAL hard before taking the plunge.
How about a committment to your spouse, your children and your God? Reason enough to work things out? Single people should think REAL hard before taking the plunge.
But... since you brought it up....
Would God truly want you to be unhappy?
Is it fair to your spouse to burden them or decieve them in the relationship?
Is it really better for the children?
#432
09-21-2005, 04:34 PM
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: Raptorlegs
How about a committment to your spouse, your children and your God? Reason enough to work things out? Single people should think REAL hard before taking the plunge.
Originally posted by: OneFlyCowboy
So here is the million dollar question...
If your not happy with someone... Why stay?
So here is the million dollar question...
If your not happy with someone... Why stay?
#433
09-21-2005, 04:45 PM
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What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
GIRLS what do they think????
If you went to Sunday School. you would know:
Would God truly want you to be unhappy? I believe life is a test of obedience and faith. Only time He promise life more abundantly is when you do it His way (and don't take that as financial abundance).
Is it fair to your spouse to burden them or decieve them in the relationship? No, you should be faithful to your spouse. Never would I tell anyone to let their spouse walk all over them but if that's the case...you shouldn't have married them to begin with. Another reason I say date every chick you can when you're young so you can make a good marital decision.
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
Would God truly want you to be unhappy? I believe life is a test of obedience and faith. Only time He promise life more abundantly is when you do it His way (and don't take that as financial abundance).
Is it fair to your spouse to burden them or decieve them in the relationship? No, you should be faithful to your spouse. Never would I tell anyone to let their spouse walk all over them but if that's the case...you shouldn't have married them to begin with. Another reason I say date every chick you can when you're young so you can make a good marital decision.
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
#434
09-21-2005, 04:48 PM
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: OneFlyCowboy
But... since you brought it up....
Would God truly want you to be unhappy?
Is it fair to your spouse to burden them or decieve them in the relationship?
Is it really better for the children?
But... since you brought it up....
Would God truly want you to be unhappy?
Is it fair to your spouse to burden them or decieve them in the relationship?
Is it really better for the children?
-My granny was beaten sometimes and unhappy in her marriage, but she always says I married him for better or for worse. She believe's she will be rewarded in heaven for her keeping her word.
-For better or for worse
-In some situations I say no, I grew up in a mentally and physically rough home(my mom and boyfriends, but I get the idea) and I have some bad memories that is uncomfortable. So I don't know how to answer that one. I guess if you have issues be a man or woman and keep it away from your kids.
#435
09-21-2005, 04:51 PM
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: Raptorlegs
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
Hey I didn't really have a mom or dad and Im not to bad! May have bad memories and wish my childhood could of been different, but I don't use that excuse like MANY do to get away with things I do wrong.
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09-21-2005, 04:53 PM
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#437
09-21-2005, 04:59 PM
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What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: motox26
Hey I didn't really have a mom or dad and Im not to bad! May have bad memories and wish my childhood could of been different, but I don't use that excuse like MANY do to get away with things I do wrong.
Originally posted by: Raptorlegs
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
Is it really better for the children? Heck, yes! Kids need both parents every day. They need that security, otherwise they grow up to have emotional issues.
Hey I didn't really have a mom or dad and Im not to bad! May have bad memories and wish my childhood could of been different, but I don't use that excuse like MANY do to get away with things I do wrong.
Not saying you can't overcome issues. Saying you've delt with things nobody should have to deal with. Most of the time it seems like there is a lack of trust and ability to make a commitment. Most guys that abuse their women don't start after the vows. They intimidate and manipulate early. It's a lifelong pattern of behavior, not something you grow into as an adult. No offense, but that's an example of making a poor marital decision.
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09-21-2005, 05:12 PM
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#439
09-21-2005, 05:17 PM
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What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
What irritates me is!
Those 6-packs work pretty good.
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: OneFlyCowboy
Yes some people shouldnt get married [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]
Yes some people shouldnt get married [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]
#440
09-21-2005, 05:29 PM
GIRLS what do they think????
Originally posted by: Raptorlegs
You're in luck! Bible even says a man is better off not getting married. Course I'm not sure you're doing anything else that book says to. lol! [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-wink.gif[/img] [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]
Originally posted by: OneFlyCowboy
Yes some people shouldnt get married [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]
Yes some people shouldnt get married [img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-happy.gif[/img]