Craig,
I sincerely feel for you I wish you all the best in this and as said we are all here for you , you can count on that!! women are a funny thing and 14 yr later I still haven't figured mine out. to be honest I stopped trying at yr 1 or 2 ! we have been close to throwing in the towel quite a few times. some how we pulled it out.

If you ever get over to Motown we need to check out the wings and relax for a few!!

hang in there

All the best,
Sam

 

w1ngnut,

I feel your pain man. Love can bring wonders to a persons life or it can cause indescribable pain. I have read tons of great advice here. I wish I can give more of the similar input. All I can recommend is you sit down with your spouse and try to make things civil. See what made her tick to drop the ball on you so suddenly. You have children together and it's going to be a rough road ahead trying to split everything down the middle. Hang in there man. When I return to Vegas (prob in Nov) I will look you up and have a few cold ones on me.

Good Luck and hang in there.

 

wingnut, sorry to hear it man so hang tough!!! In my case I been hoping mine would leave and never does[img]i/expressions/face-icon-small-mad.gif[/img] sum guys have all the luck j/k

 

Hi again guys. First off thanks again for all the support. I did find out it was more than just her unhappiness, I will leave it at that. Every day will get a little better. At least with my new info, I can have closure. Today after work I go to counceling. I hope I like the counceler because I am sending the kids to it as well. Tonight I am having dinner in a public place to go over the the matierial items. Thanks again....Craig...

 

Sorry to hear about your situation w1ngnut, Ive never been thru a divorce but I am helping my son with his. You can count on a prayer from me.

 

Keep in mind that most states have a 6 month grace period before a divorce is final, if the marriage is worth it use that time to work out the issues. Don't give up just yet just because she says it's over. Mine said the same thing but we have a very strong marriage now and have never been happier.


Good luck.

 

i feel real bad for you man, my best friends parents just got a divorce and they were the perfect family (at least seemed it) they had everything they wanted and more but like someone already said the father worked to much and the wife felt neglected and left.

I just wanna say something for your kids if everything does go threw and you guys are no longer together please and i mean please try to never get ur kids in the middle of things. My parents use to do it all the time and i could not stand it and it really stressed me out. I was to young to anything about it then but now if one my parents starts talking bad about the other i just tell them to shut up i don't need to hear that stuff anymore. So i guess i'm just tryin to say is get along enough to make sure ur kids have the best lives they can.

 

Sounds like you are getting some GREAT advice! Glad you got some more information, there is always more to the story that what "meets the eye". Just know that we are all here for you. We DS'rs all stick togather! By now I'm sure you see that! Whatever the outcome, it will be for the better.
Carl.

 

Oh god, here we go. What did I say? At appears the woodwork is now crawling with them. Sometimes people are 100% predictable.

Dabomb03, there are about a million reasons why someone gets separated and its rarely just one. Multiply your theory by every man and woman on this earth and square it by the number of years they have been married and you will barely have an understanding of his issue. Look, if it makes you feel comfortable to make divorce that simplistic, then simply just keep your comments to yourself.

Anybody that blames the women, blames work, blames socieity has about two brain cells - and I'm not so sure about the second.

The most hurtful thing anybody said to me was when a church leader came over to my house, after my ex left, and told me, "I'm sure Christ would have found the right words to keep her home". Now there's an intelligent comment. In the face of any devestation, people try to oversimplify the cause. Case in point, just look at the blame game going on now with Katrina. Do you really think that one person is to blame or one reason? For some reason our humanity demands to simplify these issues. When a bomb brought down Pan Am flight over Scottland, what do you think happened next? Nobody flew PanAm, and they went out of business. Another intelligent judgement by humanity.

For anybody reading this thread, Please DONT put blame to this - Dont blame. Because if you do, you are judging. And to be honest, you have about >< this much understanding. If I see another comment like this, expect to get an ear full.

 

WIngnut,

sorry to hear about your unfortuanate situation, hope you guys can work it out.




OPD- many times the REASON for divorce can be simple, its the process of the actual divorce that is very difficult. Dont hi-jack this thread with personal issues. Lets just support Wingnut .


peace.

Bigger.